Wife Not Attracted to You Anymore? Eight Ways to Rebuild Her Attraction and Desire for You

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Learn more about what she needs, learn more about what you need and what you guys as a team need. For men, sex is sex and love is love. I wish he could change it breaks my heart the way he is.

I thought on that time I could teach her to become better and sex is not important to loose someone like her, I thought she is the one. Those words, want to are key here. From the females this perspective this is heartbreaking.

8 Signs That Your Wife is Not Interested In You

Hi, I've been married over 10 years, am in my late 30s, as is my wife. Now, we've basically spent most of our marriage together. Her mom lives in another country, so she goes to visit her 2 or 3 times a year, I'm left home alone. I like time by myself, for the most part. But this year I feel she just began to feel 'trapped' and has basically said that she sees us now as just friends really. I've felt probably awkward around her I've put a bit of weight on - not a lot, but I've lost my confidence. She says that hasn't bothered her at all and I believe that, but it bothers me. But during sex she was never really ever that aroused by me. She never instigated sex, so that felt like even more pressure on me. She refused counseling whenever I've mentioned it in the past. Basically because whenever she's had counseling before for her own stuff, she always felt it wasn't helpful at all. And trust me, I've been to counselors where we live and I can believe that. So this year has been explosive, and she's been away for a couple of months - she had something of a nervous breakdown. We're in touch via email, and I was hoping the time apart would be a good thing, but now I really think it's done the opposite and pushed her away. Today she told me outright she didn't find me sexually attractive in that way. That devastated me, but I did suspect she thought that. I can't imagine not being with her. She's absolutely my best friend. I'm in pieces today - I've cried on and off all day, all night. I've self-harmed in the past and even tried to commit suicide - I'm really not good with coping with loss. She knows this and I think that's only making it worse cos she'll be feeling more guilty over it all, but if she's not attracted to me that way, that's it, right. If the spark has gone, how on earth can it return. I've tried being romantic when she's around, but I think she just finds that awkward cos it's me. I just want to say sorry that you are here. I don't know if there is still hope for your marriage. I do hope that you have a trusted real life friend you can speak to. I would encourage you talk to a professional if you are feeling like self harming or have thoughts of suicide. I'm sorry you are feeling so down. That must have been so painful to hear her say those things. You said you aren't good with loss and I can relate to that. I wish I could get angry and standoffish but I usually default to self blame and depression. Is there hope - there's always hope. However, it rests in her hands right now if she comes back. You can be certain, though, that any groveling, begging and making yourself look weak is not going to help your cause. Please take care of yourself and try as much as you can to be the person she fell in love with. I don't really have a friend like that I can talk to. I've been to my doctor, and he basically stuck me on depression meds. I'm the first person too when it comes to begging and whatever. Do I give her an ultimatum or say we shouldn't be in touch for a while maybe. Does she feel the same way - that you are her best friend. Depression meds are probably a good idea during this time of uncertainty. It might be time to make some new friends and find some new hobbies and ways you can spend your time that don't involve your wife. I think you should not contact her. I think you should wait for her to contact you and not be available slbecause you are out making friends and finding new hobbies. I became severely depressed after my engagement was broken his was before wife not attracted to me anymore husband. The thing I now regret most ably that time of life is not the loss of my finance but the way I. That kind of behavior has saved no relationship ever. Collective experience here is that there's probably someone else. Don't dismiss it unless you want to find out way too late to be able wife not attracted to me anymore do much about it. The most honest people become the biggest liars on the planet as soon as they're interested in someone else. Posted via Mobile DeviceThing is, we're literally always together. She doesn't drive, isn't working, etc. And I think that's been the downfall here - we're like brither and sister or something at this point rather than lovers.

But, giving gifts of love will bring you rewards nonetheless. Ladies, you know how easy it is for us to become critical. I am pretty sensitive, even though it may sound like all I care about is sex. My 12 year old daughter would be crushed. Everything else is great but I was not sexually attracted to her from day one. I told her that I am not going to initiate anything because I don't like being rejected and I am going to wait for her. You seem unsure as to whether she has cheated on you. You can kiss, but only with the lips — tongue-kissing is too arousing. Well I've only been married for 8 years and my husband and I are having sexual problems too but you have to remember, and I say this in the most uspportive way possible, eventually the sex always comes to an end.